Sanya Pelini, Ph.D.

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Sanya Pelini is a parent and researcher in education. She is passionate about child development issues and holds a Ph.D. in educational research. She transforms educational research into practical tools and resources on her blog Raising Independent Kids.

Recent Articles

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Behavior + Discipline

You Don’t Have to Constantly Entertain Your Child — Really

A parenting expert explores how boredom can unlock creativity and independence in kids

By: Sanya Pelini, Ph.D. | Oct 25, 2024
dad and teen son on a walk outside

Ages 11 - 14

How to Navigate the Transition to Teenagehood

Strategies from a parenting scholar on how to shift out of tween mode and raise capable kids

By: Sanya Pelini, Ph.D. | Sep 26, 2024
young boy writing in a note pad by himself looks at the camera with a serious expression

Parenting

Are You Raising a Perfectionist?

Strategies from a parenting scholar on how to avoid the pitfalls of intrusive parenting

By: Sanya Pelini, Ph.D. | Sep 03, 2024
a thoughtful child looks to the side as she builds memory skills

Ages 3 - 5

6 Powerful Ways to Improve Your Child’s Memory

Tips for building independence and tackling forgetfulness

By: Sanya Pelini, Ph.D. | Aug 30, 2024
Mom who is a great leader and a great parent standing with her son

Family Management

What Great Parents and Great Leaders Have in Common

From communication to inspiration, do you have what it takes?

By: Sanya Pelini, Ph.D. | Aug 23, 2024
child plays in a Montessori playroom featuring low shelves and simple toys

Preschool

Essentials for a Montessori Playroom

Toys, tools and values to encourage your child’s curiosity and help them help themselves

By: Sanya Pelini, Ph.D. | Aug 01, 2024
a child sits in a window looking defeated and helpless

Behavior + Discipline

Why Every Parent Needs to Know About Learned Helplessness

Plus, four tips for raising capable kids

By: Sanya Pelini, Ph.D. | Jul 25, 2024
Cute baby on the floor smiling five factors for baby to thrive

New Baby

Growing Strong: The 5 Essential Factors Your Baby Needs to Thrive

Learn how to provide the “T-Factors” for your baby

By: Sanya Pelini, Ph.D. | Jun 12, 2024
Dad comforting his anxious daughter

Behavior + Discipline

35 Solutions to Soothe an Anxious Child

How to help your child manage their big emotions

By: Sanya Pelini, Ph.D. | Apr 11, 2024
Dad talking with daughter effective ways to deal with bad behavior

Behavior + Discipline

Study Reveals the Best Way to Deal With Challenging Behavior

Relationship management is a big part of it

By: Sanya Pelini, Ph.D. | Mar 25, 2024