What does it mean to be a “real” man? Traditional definitions include adjectives like tough, strong, independent, and unemotional. To act otherwise is considered to be “wimpy.” Like many guys growing up in this culture, I unconsciously and consciously accepted the traditional male stereotype. However, over the years as I have raised 3 children, I have come to understand that what is needed to be a good dad is often the exact opposite of the “real man” stereotype. The more I embrace my “wimpiness,” the better dad, husband and person I become.
Presented by Fred Capestany. The son of Cuban immigrants, Fred Capestany was born and raised in Seattle. Along with his 7 brothers & sisters, Fred grew up in the Mt Baker neighborhood, a racially and economically diverse community in the South End of Seattle. Fred has worked in education and non-profits throughout his professional career. Currently, Fred is the Director of College Support at Rainier Scholars, an educational access organization for students of color who are the first in their families to attend college. Fred is an experienced sexuality educator who has worked for Planned Parenthood and the Seattle School District. For the past two years, Fred has presented puberty workshops for 10-12 year old boys through an organization called Great Conversations.
